Mr. Tobjorn (Toby) C. Jacobsen

Mr. Tobjorn (Toby) C. Jacobsen


Let us remember with thanksgiving the life and ministry of Tobjorn (Toby) Chase Jacobsen, 51, of Bethesada, MD who died unexpectedly on Tuesday, February 22, 2022. Toby is the oldest son of Rev. Roy E. and Mary Ellen Jacobsen.

Toby was born on December 11, 1970 in New York City where his father was attending Union Theological Seminary and followed his parents to their first appointment in the New York Conference at New Fairfield & Gaylordsville in Connecticut. Toby was joined by younger brothers Jeffrey and Kirk in New Fairfield where Roy was pastor of a growing single point charge until 1995.  

Toby graduated from American University with BA and MBA degrees, and spent his career in the Washington, DC area in the software business for various firms servicing the Federal Government.

In addition to his parents, Toby is survived by his wife, Cari Deary. He was the father of identical twins, Andrew, age 7, and Brandon, who pre-deceased his father at 17 months. He is also survived by his brothers, Jeffrey and Kirk.

Funeral and Memorial plans are indefinite at this time. They will take place later this year and information will be provided. Condolences can be sent to Roy and Mary Ellen Jacobsen, 532 West Beach Road, Charlestown, RI 02813.